I’ve learned, despite what I once thought, that confidence isn’t a have or a have not.

It’s a skill.  And one that I didn’t have for most of my life. 

I had to realize that nothing about myself, or you, has to change to become the most audacious, confident version of you who has it all. 

You’re enough – right now, as is. 

I haven’t always been confident.

Something important to know is that 

The only thing that has to change is how you see yourself. 

I was once the most insecure person I knew. I’ve downplayed my desires, backed down from opportunities, starved my body, overanalyzed every sentence before speaking, and spent two decades of my life seeing the world through the filter of “not enough”. 

The common confidence-building advice fell flat, traditional therapy barely made a dent, and no amount of self-development books were going to dig me out of the low self-worth I was in. 

So I figured out how to do it my way – and it worked, fast.

It’s incredibly likely that any self-deprecating thought you’ve had, I’ve had too. It’s what makes me so good at what I do. 

I remember deciding I never wanted to feel so stuck and powerless again and once I got there,

I’d make sure no other woman felt that way either. 

Now I support countless women around the globe from Finland to France, India to Ireland, Cambodia to Canada, South Africa to New Zealand in building audacious self-belief and their version of unrealistic success.